Let R={(3,3)(5,5),(9,9),(12,12),(5,12),(3,9),(3,12),(3,5)} be a relation on the set A={3,5,9,12}
Clearly, every element of A is related to itself. Therefore, it is a reflexive.
Now, R is not symmetry because 3 is related to 5 but 5 is not related to 3.
Also R is transitive relation because it satisfies the property that if a R b and b R c then aRc.