We have PF1+PF2=2a=10
for every point P on the ellipse.
Differentiating w.r.t. x, we get 8x+18ydxdy=0 ⇒dxdy=−18y8x=−9y4x
The tangent at point (x,y) will be parallel to 8x=9y if 9y−4x=98⇒x=−2y
Substituting x=−2y in 4x2+9y2=1, we get 4(−2y)2+9y2=1 or 25y2=1 ⇒y=±51
Thus, the points where the tangents are parallel to 8x=9y are (−52,51) and (52,−51)